My wife and I spent 3 nights at Desire in late April. We had a terrific time. The resort definately lives up to its reputation. Resort was clean, the room was very nice, we splurged on the Passion Suite, the staff and the overall service was terrific. The resorts one down fall is its food. The food at Suki was fine, but we were disapointed in the other two. Lunch seems to be a real problem, too bad you cant just get a sandwich somewhere. These are minor complaints. We plan on returning as soon as we can.

My boyfriend and I just came back from spending five nights at Desire. We really loved it. The hotel is beautiful, and the staff is great. The food is really good with much variety. There are a few restaurants that are open different nights. You do not need reservations just walk in. The evening entertainment is okay and the disco is fun but dies out quickly. We had fun dressing for the theme of each night and most everyone dressed up as well.

We rented a car and it came in handy for traveling into Cabo San Lucas each day to shop or the clubs at night. We would have paid much more for transportation to and from airport and a taxis the multiple times we went to Cabo.

We had stayed at Deisre Cancun and enjoyed it. We thought we would try Los Cabos - a major mistake. It is nothing like Cancun.

First of all its freezing cold at night. The only bars are open air and its impossible to sit in them without jackets blankets etc. this is not an exception - its always cold here in the winter.

Even the disco is freezing - it has open holes for windows and the icy wind blew in. We found it impossible to stay there. It was even cold during several of the days we stayed there - an icy wind blowing off the sea.

To add to the misery on three separate occasions there was no hot water for showers. That is a disgrace Several people went down with chills and colds while we were there. Freezing cold is not really a seductive atmosphere.

The hotel needs indioor bars and some heating for the entertainment areas. There ar patio heaters but they are inadequate and were often out of gas - nobody did anything about it. The only indoor area in the whole is the "Japanese" restaurant

The rooms are small but pleasant and very well cleaned. Strangely there is no door on the bathrooms. There is no form of heating in the rooms and they were cold.

The food is nothing like as good as Cancun. Boring , the same thing every day and nothing like the quality at Cancun. The Mexican buffet has nothing vaguely Mexican about it - not an enchillada, quesadilla or burrito in sight. just meat grilled in awful cheap corn oil and various "stews" There is one less reataurant than in Cancun - iand they sometimes use the pool bar as an extra restaurant. But its open air and freezing at night.

The hotel was about 50% occupied moist of the time we were there but there were still not enough beds - people were lying on concrete walls to sunbathe. You cant go naked on the beach and the sea is too cold and too dangerous to swim in -unlike Cancun where the resort is right on the beach and they have a beach bar as well a [ better] pool bar. Many of beds at Los Cabos are at the back of the pool bar and you have a view of the back of the restaurant. and abig green fence


The disco is grungy and the lighting there is terrible. The cocktail waitress went around in long thick trousers a padded jacket and a hair net.. Not really seductive.

I agree with all the comments about the staff. They are excellent and friendly though one or two of the grill cooks should be taught to smile.

The managment though is something else. If I owned this place [ and i was in the hospitality business for many years] ,the general manager and the head chef would be gone.in a heartbeat


It might be better in the summer - but somehow I doubt it


It may be helpful to note that the owners theselves desribe Cancun as " a five start resort" but Los Cabos as merely "upscale"


If you want a wonderful sexy seductive resort by all means go to Desire - but the one in Cancun not Los Cabos.

We have been to Desire Cancun twice and are about to visit Cabo for the second time. We went in December and thought it was wonderful. We are not swingers, just like to be friends with swingers because they are such open and great people. We met some terrific couples and one of them is actually going back with us next month! This is a great place to take your spouse that is not in the Lifestyle but would like to experience a sensual vacation and enjoys being naked. The staff was fantastic, the rooms were nice and the food was very good. I didn't see that many ladies wearing the theme night costumes like they do at Hedonism but I still enjoyed wearing mine and think it's part of the fun. If you check out other local hotels Desire is the deal of the century for being all-inclusive. The beach is beautiful and there was no one on it. We thought this would be disappointing since we loved being on the beach naked in Cancun but not at all. All the action is around the pool anyway. Once you visit a place like Desire you won't want to take any other vacations. If you have been to Hedonism in Jamaica, this is a MUCH nicer resort with better food and couples only. If you must get out of the resort I recommend walking the 20 minutes into Los Cabos. We rented a car (better deal than a taxi) to Cabo and it was dirty and very touristy and we couldn't wait to get back to the resort. We will check out Los Cabos this time. I hear it's a nice little town and the Tropicana restaurant is supposedly the place to eat.